I am not a real romantic. I hate flowers. I can deal without the chocolates. I am not clingy. I have my own independence and I do not need to spend 24 hours with my significant other. I never maneuvered my way into Jim's life and I always said to him "I don't need you, I choose to be with you!" Harsh, but I have always been open. What you see is what you get.
With that said, today is our anniversary. 5 years of marriage and 15 years together. How did we celebrate you ask? By going to a diner for lunch, taking a nap, seeing 22 Jump Street in the theaters, and topping off the evening with beers and wings. I am so full of PBR, spicy garlic wings and happiness!
It poured today. Much like our wedding day. Though it was warmer today! I just don't think it would be the same if it was sunny and beautiful.
I am happy I have Jim. He lets me be me. I am who I am, and he is patient! Really patient and passive. I am impatient and aggressive. I guess you can say we balance each other. He is more sentimental then I am... And I am not trying to make him sound like a sap. But in all honesty the whole anniversary, valentines day scenarios are not my cup of tea. And Jim knows this. Hence why he brings me to a wing place instead of an expensive/pretentious restaurant. No gifts. No elaborate gestures. Simply me watching the World Cup, yelling Gooooooaaaalll, drinking beer and laughing at the movie we just watched! Those are the moments to live for.
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